By that I mean I am starting to love him romantically. I have never thought of myself as gay, and I’m not at all attracted to men except for him. We do a lot together and talk about personal things that we normally never would with anyone else. At night I have sexual fantasies about him. I am desperate to show him somehow but I don’t know how. Any advice?

I’m probably bi…but i wont find out because it irritates me when gay/bi people are in the closet and thats exactly how i would be.

I am tripping out. So I’ve noticed for the past few weeks that my crotch has been itching like hell. I am a 32 yr old gay man. I ended a two year relationship a few months ago and my ex and i still talk about possibly getting back together. Ive been dating random men here and there. i messed around with a guy a few weeks ago. He came over, we drank wine and ended up in the 69 position. It was fun and he is a nice guy. other than that, ive not had another guy in bed since my ex. I went crazy when i was looking closer in my crotch and noticed that these bugs had little legs. I ended up shaving my whole pubic area. i was really freaking out. i went out and bought that lice-killing stuff. i am pretty angry that the guy may have given them to me. i cant stand the sensation of itching. i feel ashamed and now i want my ex more than ever(to comfort me). how do i explain my shaved crotch? also i wouldnt want to put him at risk of getting them and i dont know what to do!! Please provide some tips.

I am a 20 year old daughter to divorced parents. My mom is 43, blonde and really pretty. She’s an aerobics instructor with a great figure and big calves that are very muscular. In December, I took care of her plants at her condo while she was away on business. I was in her closet looking for a certain pair of heels when I stumbled across a handwritten letter and two polaroids clipped together at the bottom of a shoebox. One showed my mother standing next to a tall, full figured black woman and what appeared to be this woman’s children. They were posing in front of a ferris wheel at an amusement park. The other photo just devastated me. It showed this same woman standing completely nude in my mother’s motorhome. She was lifting her huge breasts toward the camera and her swollen nipples were the size of my thumbs. She had tattooes everywhere and her big lips were puckered as if throwing a kiss. The letter was addressed to my mother and signed by this woman. It was so raunchy that I couldn’t read it. I have been walking around like a zombie in the twilight zone since then and I cry every night.

I told him I was interested a few months ago.  We decided to “try
things”.  We went on a few dates, I spent a few nights at his house.  I fell
asleep in his arms and woke up in the same place.  Actually, we’d both
wake up around the same time, separated from one another, but he’d
sleepily pull me close to him again so we could wake up together when his
alarm would go off.  He kissed me in private, and he kissed me like he
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